little bit of alcohol
so i've got this theory right.. i'm not sure who reads this blog cause i'm quite secretive about it, but comment if you've got thoughts on this.
i had a bit too much to drink tonight and ended up falling asleep at the penthouse for a bit. so i just got back home and am in the middle of hanging out my laundry.
the thought that came to me was perhaps guys are softies as well. secretly. and some of them dont know how to be vulnerable to their friends, or the people around them because we're all told that guys need to be strong. BE STRONG. BITE YOUR LIP AND DONT CRY. DONT BE SENSITIVE. DONT SHOW YOUR FEELINGS. but i as a girl think that it's important to be vulnerable because somehow you'll find some sense of security or comfort from how others respond to your vulnerability. so maybe for some guys, the only time they know how to be vulnerable is when they're drunk and in need of help. because it's "cool" and "tough" to drink and get smashed, yet when you're in that state you obviously need help. maybe that's their way of being weak once in awhile. some of them anyway.
ORRRR maybe these guys just get smashed because they've got little self control.
you'd let yourself get tipsy if you really trust the people around you though. i think. so i guess it's almost like an expression of a relationship.
anyway. back to laundry. imma have to wake up early to open toastbar tmr. gnite world!
i had a bit too much to drink tonight and ended up falling asleep at the penthouse for a bit. so i just got back home and am in the middle of hanging out my laundry.
the thought that came to me was perhaps guys are softies as well. secretly. and some of them dont know how to be vulnerable to their friends, or the people around them because we're all told that guys need to be strong. BE STRONG. BITE YOUR LIP AND DONT CRY. DONT BE SENSITIVE. DONT SHOW YOUR FEELINGS. but i as a girl think that it's important to be vulnerable because somehow you'll find some sense of security or comfort from how others respond to your vulnerability. so maybe for some guys, the only time they know how to be vulnerable is when they're drunk and in need of help. because it's "cool" and "tough" to drink and get smashed, yet when you're in that state you obviously need help. maybe that's their way of being weak once in awhile. some of them anyway.
ORRRR maybe these guys just get smashed because they've got little self control.
you'd let yourself get tipsy if you really trust the people around you though. i think. so i guess it's almost like an expression of a relationship.
anyway. back to laundry. imma have to wake up early to open toastbar tmr. gnite world!
posted by elisa @ 2:45 AM
1 Comments:
At 2:01 AM ,
BK said...
Depends, like I know some guys who drink too much because of a lack of self control and some, like myself, drink to open up a bit more (coz I'm too quiet), but never really thought about the idea about drinking to feel vulnerable, but could be possible. I always thought most people drink to forget stuff because you can vent and spill all you want, but you won't recall much the next day, but it does feel like a burden lifted off your shoulder.
tl;dr: Yeah possibly.
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