the working man (boy, really) trap

someone was talking to me about nice sweet things a working boy can do.
i think girls have this window where they're especially vulnerable to the special treatment from a boy who's working. i hesitate to call him a man, simply because i dont think the mental age is quite that of a man yet. how do i put it. there are some things a real man would and wouldn't do. and when you're not quite there.. let's just call you a boy. usually they're in their early 20s. haha.

so anyway, i think girls have this transition window where you realise that "hey, MAYBE stability is more important than good jokes and showers of gifts."
then when a boy who's got an office job - mmaybe an intern - comes along and isn't quite yet a man, but goes to work like a typical man, then your mind wonders what it is about yourself that's so special that you've got a "man's" attention. and of course he makes you feel special with all the attention.

it's good if he respects you and treats you well and everythng, but yknow, when he takes advantage of the stable image etc - well.. it somehow lures you in, even though your mind tells you it's illogical.

sheesh. sometimes the heart can be so deceptive.

by the way, that's just part of my thought process. huge assumptions and sweeping statements made there which i myself disagree with. i'd just rather refine my business finance knowledge, than refine this thought process. maybe it takes explaining the background stories behind this post for a reader to understand where im coming from. heh. that'll be my little secret.