good ideas

i had a good time talking to tim this evening, although it was for about 5 or 10 minutes.
his ideas and perspectives always challenge mine and i learn so much from him.

that is why i can't wait for the sex sexuality and relationships seminar/workshop thing that's coming up next month. today he casually mentioned a one-liner that already got me thinking of homosexuality very differently.

i really like his ideas and what he believes. but those are not who he is. it's just like how you may like my contribution and the other things i do, but im not defined by what i do or the ideas i come up with.

im reminded of March - a book we did for literature last year, where Mr March falls in love with Grace, but there's always this question of whether he's fallen in love with her, or what she stands for and her strength.

by the way, im in no way saying that i don't like tim or have fallen in love with him. this has got nothing to do with him at all hahaha.

dong came over early in the morning (by his standards) to have breakfast with me cause i said i'd make him brekky. lol. tsk. this kind gotta bribe luh, otherwise i'll only ever get to have lunch and dinner with him.



*by the way, i spelt phileo as philia cause that's how wiki spelt it. well, at least i pronounced it right!