flame

do not arouse or awaken love till it so desires, she says.

it's almost as if this love, or whatever this is.. it's so good, so beautiful that we can't and mustnt do anything to mess it up.

the "raya" flame of companionship

the "ahava" flame of commitment and making a decision to join your lives together

the "dod" flame - the sexual and physical one.

how can you just be satisfied with a dod flame without the raya and ahava? one flame alone can't give the same heat that 3 flames combined does. when you separate the flames, you can never truly be satisfied. it's like going against the way God created us to experience love in a marriage.

robbell